[Sounds like he mixed up Tifa and Amelia's relationship to him. He can get it. He did really miss being able to tell Carlos anything relevant about his life. Still...the worst he can do with projection is leaning on someone perhaps more than he should. Not...fights]
Have you talked to her about it? Cookies will only do so much.
I tried and apologized, but she dropped it pretty quickly. I went around preaching about control and I was the one who lost it. It’s immature and I get her, I’d do the same thing. And I want to, but I don’t want to keep hiding behind excuses either. I figured the least I could do is help her heal and try to talk again, but. I don’t know what else to say. What would you say?
You're asking me? I'm not exactly an expert in this kind of thing. But...I guess I'd just keep trying?
I doubt you ever said you had complete control over yourself. So just...own up to it and try to do better? I don't know...I don't know Amelia myself so I don't know how she thinks.
I’m asking you because you’re the best help I have.
She’s my friend’s mom. Really serious and pretty sophisticated. I already told her I’m ready for the consequences so that’s a start. I just didn’t want it to look like I don’t care.
[Oh cool he's being asked to give advice about getting aggressive, something he never does, against a mother-- something he hasn't had in over 10 years.
HE LOVES YOU EREN BUT HE IS SO NOT QUALIFIED FOR THIS]
Yeah, that sounds like a good start to me. Look, I'll make a fresh batch of cookies for her. And I think it's good you show how much you care?
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[Sounds like he mixed up Tifa and Amelia's relationship to him. He can get it. He did really miss being able to tell Carlos anything relevant about his life. Still...the worst he can do with projection is leaning on someone perhaps more than he should. Not...fights]
Have you talked to her about it?
Cookies will only do so much.
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I went around preaching about control and I was the one who lost it. It’s immature and I get her, I’d do the same thing.
And I want to, but I don’t want to keep hiding behind excuses either. I figured the least I could do is help her heal and try to talk again, but.
I don’t know what else to say. What would you say?
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I'm not exactly an expert in this kind of thing.
But...I guess I'd just keep trying?
I doubt you ever said you had complete control over yourself.
So just...own up to it and try to do better?
I don't know...I don't know Amelia myself so I don't know how she thinks.
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She’s my friend’s mom. Really serious and pretty sophisticated. I already told her I’m ready for the consequences so that’s a start.
I just didn’t want it to look like I don’t care.
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HE LOVES YOU EREN BUT HE IS SO NOT QUALIFIED FOR THIS]
Yeah, that sounds like a good start to me.
Look, I'll make a fresh batch of cookies for her.
And I think it's good you show how much you care?
I hope...she's receptive to it.
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no better way to do than do
but thanks
i’m on my way alright?
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Wish I could give more solid advice.
But alright, I'll seeya soon!