I mean, if I'm honest? The chance of hurting him aren't zero.
But that goes with any relationship. There's always a chance someone will get hurt. Instead of being afraid of that, it's better to figure out either how to avoid that, or what to do if it does happen.
But it's something you and Fugo need to work out. Tell him about your fears, and what you think might happen. Then he can decide if he wants to risk it.
But...you can't make the decision for him. I mean think if he did that for you, you'd be pretty mad right?
[Elliot sighs to himself on his end. Yeah, Ash isn't going to like this one but they're going in circles here]
Ash, don't take this as an insult because I actually do this, but...
If you don't think this can be solved by talking things out with Furgo - then have you considered therapy? I know you got a possession problem, I get that, but a therapist would be able help with anger management strategies so losing control would be less of an issue.
There are! There's therapists that actually specialize in trauma, so they're trained to handle tough cases.
Though of course, we'd need to find one that is also aware of the supernatural. I don't have a list of ones in Kaisou on hand, but I bet Dr. Rosewood would have some good recommendations. I drive another student to sessions with him, and he seems to know what he's doing.
[Ash doesn't want to, doesn't think it'll help, is pretty sure it'd do the opposite of helping, but he's not going to be an ass to Elliot like that. Not today.
And he does want to do right by Pat, it's just this damn possession.]
just gotta make sure they're not Krusnik. but I'll try.
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The fact you're worried about that? Shows that you are good for him. Because you actually care about his wellbeing.
And I've seen him at school with you. He really comes out of his shell when he's around you.
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But that goes with any relationship. There's always a chance someone will get hurt. Instead of being afraid of that, it's better to figure out either how to avoid that, or what to do if it does happen.
But it's something you and Fugo need to work out. Tell him about your fears, and what you think might happen. Then he can decide if he wants to risk it.
But...you can't make the decision for him. I mean think if he did that for you, you'd be pretty mad right?
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Ash, don't take this as an insult because I actually do this, but...
If you don't think this can be solved by talking things out with Furgo - then have you considered therapy? I know you got a possession problem, I get that, but a therapist would be able help with anger management strategies so losing control would be less of an issue.
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Though of course, we'd need to find one that is also aware of the supernatural. I don't have a list of ones in Kaisou on hand, but I bet Dr. Rosewood would have some good recommendations. I drive another student to sessions with him, and he seems to know what he's doing.
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And he does want to do right by Pat, it's just this damn possession.]
just gotta make sure they're not Krusnik. but I'll try.
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And Ash? Whether or not you decide to date Fugo is up to you. Maybe you aren't ready for a relationship right now, and that's okay.
But no matter what you're telling yourself, you're not a lost cause. And you also have every right to be happy.